'CHANGE' is a word, people tend to interpret in two ways - positive and negative. For the OPTIMISTS, changes are made, or being done for the better - for improvements, opportunity and for them, it's such a natural thing that happens everytime.
For the PESSIMISTS, however, changes scares the hell out of them (i think so? :p)! it freaks them out as they are aware that with these changes comes the fact that they are going to deviate from the usual things they are doing.
CHANGE.. is a word - an adjective and a verb - that depends on 'us'. It is either we change for the better or for the worse.. oh hell! depends on what we do, want-to-do, how-we-do, certain things or aspects in our lives - given whatever our approach may be.. pessimists' or optimists'.
People say "change for the better" -- question is, how do we change ourselves for the better then? hmm..i say.. we change for the better.. when we choose to change for 'ourselves', and not for 'others'. When we choose to change for our own's sake.. we change for the better because even though we change.. we still are "our own self" and not change based from what others want us to be.. or what others dicate us to be.. changing for ourselves keeps our identity, whereas changing for others alters it, which could also lead us to losing our identity.. :s So, i say, hehe.. i dont know about you but this is just my opinions okay?! 
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So?.. Doesn't it feels so good changing for the better. It do feels good right?! It is like feeling as if you are born again to a new and better individual. It is like waking up from a deep sleep and inhaling on fresh air. hmm hmm *_*
So, speaking of changes, i finally managed to make a layout for myself.. pheew! For the first time! hehe..after a lot of all the copying and pasting i've done before, atleast now.. i have my own! I can also use it for our "own web page" requirement on our ICT##(cnt remember what # it is ehh :D).. and IT'S SO ME!! -- all the butterflies * stars * flowers * the swirls * ooh and not to mention.. the colors! I love violet, yellow, gold, pink.. given whatever shade! Oh well actually i love colors..all! but those mentioned are the colors that truly and perfectly define who i am. hehehe =)
so..to end this with, changes are indeed inevitable. It is but a viscous cycle, a natural phenomena things in this world - from the beginning to the future - will keep on doing. All we have to do is to live with it, adapt to it, and yet, keep our identities with us.
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